Monday, February 28, 2005

Do you believe in love?

Do you believe that unconditional love cannot be compromised? I do, but I think a lot of folks have given up on love and it makes me sad. Our generation has chosen to settle for the next best thing. We love for different reasons but true love really does exist. Irv Gotti said “ you are allowed 3 great love in your life” I am totally feeling him on that…but how do you know when you’ve exhausted your share?
Why is it that some get it right on the first try, but most never find it at all?
Is it possible to love someone you’ve never met? You know… like a cyberpal. Or can you fall in love at the very first sight? Maybe it will take a friendship that evolves into love, just so you don’t recognize it right away.
When love is not reciprocated does that count against you or against the one you love? I think you are allowed to love as many times as you can but only get 3 chances to be loved in return. It is now up to you to hold on to one of those 3 loves and just incase you miss it the first two times…. you get one more chance!
So what happens if you let it pass you by? Well then you live a life without love, a life of reason, you miss out on the rush and the butterflies and the skipping heartbeats and the lack of sleep when you haven’t seen your love and the sudden loss of appetite from thinking about your love. You miss out on all the good things love can bring.
How then do you recognize love? I am not perfectly sure but for me it’s when;
· You can stand him snoring all night…music to your ears
· You watch him do the #2
· You kiss him first thing in the morning
· You can fart without discomfort and find it hysterical
· You can pick your nose and roll it…. then show him
· You pick his nose and remove wax from his ears
· You wear your ‘laundry day’ underwear when his around
· You can tell him that last round was not so good
· You can cry when his around
· You let him watch you change your pad/tampon
· You wear his shirt to bed when he isn’t there
· Your heart skips a beat when his name pops up on your CID
· You laugh out loud when you think of a personal moment you shared
· Your face lights up when he walks into a room
· No matter how bad your day has been, he can make you smile

I could go on for days but its different for everyone, and if dude is comfortable with half of these things…. chances are he loves you too!
I know, I know…I am such a hopeless romantic!
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